There’s something timeless about a big bowl of Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding chilling in the fridge, waiting for family to gather around the table. It’s soft, creamy, layered with sweet bananas and vanilla wafers, and somehow tastes even better after everything has had time to settle together.

This is the kind of dessert that feels right at home at Sunday suppers, potlucks, holiday spreads, and casual summer cookouts. Every spoonful brings that classic Southern comfort with silky pudding, tender cookies, and fresh banana flavor in every bite.
Why You’ll Love This Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding is one of those desserts that never goes out of style. It uses familiar ingredients, comes together without anything complicated, and delivers that cool, creamy texture people always come back for.
It also makes a wonderful make-ahead dessert. As it chills, the flavors blend beautifully and the wafers soften into that signature cake-like layer that makes banana pudding so nostalgic and satisfying.
What Makes Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding So Special?
What sets this dessert apart is the balance of textures and the pure comfort it brings. Fresh banana slices add sweetness and softness, vanilla wafers create delicate layers, and the pudding ties everything together into a rich, spoonable dessert that feels both simple and memorable.
Another reason it stands out is how flexible it is for different occasions. You can dress it up in a trifle dish for a holiday table or keep it casual in a baking dish for an everyday family dessert. Either way, it always disappears fast.
Ingredients for the Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
You only need a handful of classic ingredients to build the creamy layers that make this dessert so beloved. Each one plays an important role in flavor, texture, and structure.
Vanilla pudding mix
This gives the dessert its creamy base and helps create that smooth, rich filling that holds the layers together.
Cold milk
Milk blends with the pudding mix to form the soft and silky texture that makes banana pudding so luscious.
Sweetened condensed milk
This adds deep sweetness and a fuller, creamier body that gives the pudding a more decadent Southern-style feel.
Vanilla extract
A little vanilla rounds out the flavor and adds warmth that pairs beautifully with banana and wafer layers.
Whipped topping
This lightens the pudding mixture and gives it an airy finish so the dessert feels fluffy instead of heavy.
Vanilla wafers
These are the classic cookie layer in banana pudding. They soften as the dessert chills and become tender and cake-like.
Ripe bananas
Bananas are the heart of the recipe, bringing fresh sweetness and soft texture to every layer.
How To Make the Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
This dessert comes together in simple stages. Once you build the layers and let everything chill, the result is a creamy, comforting Southern classic.
Step 1: Make the pudding base
Whisk the vanilla pudding mix with cold milk until it begins to thicken. Stir in the sweetened condensed milk and vanilla extract until the mixture is smooth and fully combined.
Step 2: Fold in the whipped topping
Gently fold the whipped topping into the pudding mixture. This keeps the filling light and creamy while giving it that soft, fluffy texture.
Step 3: Slice the bananas
Peel and slice the bananas into even rounds. Try to use ripe bananas that are sweet but still firm enough to hold their shape in the layers.
Step 4: Build the first layer
Arrange a layer of vanilla wafers in the bottom of a serving dish or trifle bowl. Add a layer of banana slices over the cookies, then spread part of the pudding mixture on top.
Step 5: Repeat the layers
Continue layering wafers, bananas, and pudding until all the ingredients are used. Finish with a final layer of pudding over the top.
Step 6: Chill until set
Cover the dish and refrigerate for at least 4 hours, or longer if possible. This gives the wafers time to soften and the flavors time to blend.
Step 7: Garnish and serve
Before serving, you can add crushed vanilla wafers, extra banana slices, or a little whipped topping for a pretty finish.

Best Ways to Serve and Store Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
This recipe feeds about 10 to 12 people, depending on portion size, which makes it perfect for sharing. Serve it well chilled with a large spoon so you can scoop down through all the creamy layers.
For storage, keep the pudding covered in the refrigerator. It’s best enjoyed within 2 days for the freshest banana flavor and texture, although leftovers can last a bit longer. The cookies will continue to soften over time, which many people love even more.
What to Serve With Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding?
Fried chicken
The sweet, creamy pudding is a wonderful finish after a hearty Southern meal with crispy fried chicken.
Barbecue ribs
A cool dessert like this is perfect after smoky, saucy ribs fresh off the grill.
Baked ham
Banana pudding pairs beautifully with savory holiday mains like baked ham thanks to its sweet and mellow flavor.
Southern-style green beans
If you’re serving this after a full comfort-food meal, seasoned green beans make a classic side dish that fits right in.
Buttermilk biscuits
Warm biscuits with butter add a cozy Southern touch to the table before dessert is served.
Sweet tea
A glass of cold sweet tea keeps the Southern theme going and balances the creamy richness of the pudding.
Fresh berries
A simple bowl of strawberries or blueberries offers a fresh contrast if you want something bright on the side.
Want More Dessert Ideas?
If you love old-fashioned sweets and comforting desserts, you might also enjoy these Nora Nosh favorites:
- Chocolate Instant Pudding for another creamy, spoonable dessert that comes together with pure comfort.
- Banana Bread Cookies if you want another banana-packed treat with a soft homemade feel.
- Mississippi Mud Cake for a rich Southern dessert with deep chocolate flavor.
- No-Bake Preacher Cookies when you need an easy old-school dessert with nostalgic charm.
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Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
- Total Time: 4 hours 20 minutes
- Yield: 10 servings
- Diet: Vegetarian
Description
Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding is the kind of dessert that instantly feels like home. With creamy vanilla pudding, layers of ripe bananas, and soft vanilla wafers that melt into each spoonful, this easy recipe is pure comfort from the first bite. It’s perfect for potlucks, holiday tables, quick dessert prep, family gatherings, and make-ahead food ideas when you want a classic sweet treat everyone loves.
Ingredients
2 boxes instant vanilla pudding mix (3.4 ounces each)
3 cups cold whole milk
1 can sweetened condensed milk (14 ounces)
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
1 container whipped topping (8 ounces, thawed)
1 box vanilla wafers (11 ounces)
5 ripe bananas, sliced
Instructions
1. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together the instant vanilla pudding mix and cold milk for about 2 minutes until it starts to thicken.
2. Stir in the sweetened condensed milk and vanilla extract until the mixture is smooth and creamy.
3. Fold in the thawed whipped topping gently until fully combined and fluffy.
4. In a 9×13-inch dish or large trifle bowl, arrange a layer of vanilla wafers on the bottom.
5. Add a layer of sliced bananas over the wafers.
6. Spread part of the pudding mixture over the banana layer.
7. Repeat the layers until all ingredients are used, ending with pudding on top.
8. Cover and refrigerate for at least 4 hours so the wafers soften and the flavors blend.
9. Garnish with extra vanilla wafers or banana slices before serving if desired.
Notes
Use bananas that are ripe but still firm, because overly soft bananas can turn mushy and make the pudding watery too quickly.
- Prep Time: 20 minutes
- Cook Time: 0 minutes
- Category: Dessert
- Method: No-Bake
- Cuisine: Southern American
Nutrition
- Serving Size: 1 serving
- Calories: 356
- Sugar: 32g
- Sodium: 410mg
- Fat: 11g
- Saturated Fat: 7g
- Unsaturated Fat: 3g
- Trans Fat: 0g
- Carbohydrates: 60g
- Fiber: 2g
- Protein: 6g
- Cholesterol: 18mg
